Hey everyone! So I have a delimma. I have been previously engaged and it was less than a year ago. For that engagement, I had 7 bridesmaids. For this one my fiance wants to have only 5 members of our respective wedding party. He has also asked I include his sister in my bm's. This means that of the original people I have to exclude 3 people.
I'm worried about hurting anyone's feelings. Like why did she want me to be a bridesmaid then but not now? Then on top of that which 3 do I cut?
I would just tell him I want to have the same girls but he has aspergers and doesn't do well in large crowds. I mean he can handle it most of the time, but I think standing up in front of 200 people will already have him uneasy not including the whole hey we're getting married bit.