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kezim

Hey everyone. After some mistakes and fighting on the boards, I have gotten a new account under this name. I probably won't be posting much elsewhere due to the other posters following my posts and continuing to be rude but I will post here from time to time for help. Thanks

julbgordo

Thanks for the update.  What was your other sn?  If we have you listed on the web site under the old one, I can update that for you.

Beachy730

Hi, her name was Katelyn26.  You can find her loveliness on the Chit Chat board, Snarky Brides, and Military Brides.  And the drama and rudeness she is referring to is her own.  But have fun with her, she's all yours now!

klapham

FYI: On this board, we don't put up with rudeness of any sort. Decided early on we are drama-free which is why everyone LOVES this board. If you have plans to be rude, you are not welcome under any circumstance. So, if anyone was rude anywhere and wants to change their ways you are more than welcome to participate. Just know that if we see ANYONE being nasty we will not tolarte it.

klapham

After some stalking, whatever beef  kezim and dnbeach have or whatever people have said in the past needs to end here. Do not think about being rude or disrespectful. I know I will not tolerate it on my board and neither will these ladies. I am not taking sides in the least. The only side I am taking is civility. I expect the same from each one of the June 2012 board members

Beachy730

Oh I have no intentions of sticking around this board.  I thought I wrote that in my first post, but clearly I didn't.  Just giving you ladies warning of what you're getting.  Good luck!

sprtychick10

can't we be drama free please?

julbgordo

I don't think dnbeach will be back.  

@kezim: You're more than welcome to post on June 2012 and seek advice here.  As everyone's been saying, this is an awesome board and I remember you posting in the past, so you know how welcoming this board is overall.

kezim

I wanted to post here because the other ladies (as you can tell) follow my posts and give rude comments so I can't get any good advice. I know this is a drama free board. That is why I came here so I can get some feedback on different wedding related things

MaryLaura13

Thanks for keeping the integrity of the board girls! you're the best!

mary9449

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:1c62c557-c7a5-4632-937d-0a0816b52448">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]Thanks for keeping the integrity of the board girls! :) you're the best!
Posted by MaryLaura13[/QUOTE]

This.

sprtychick10

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:1c62c557-c7a5-4632-937d-0a0816b52448">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]<strong>Thanks for keeping the integrity of the board girls! :) you're the best!</strong>
Posted by MaryLaura13[/QUOTE]<div>
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Rethany

Katelyn, I've seen the things you've posted on other boards.  I'm a military bride and the things you've said about certain other military brides and branches are extremely rude to the military in general and will not be acceptable here.  I'm honestly offended by the things you said.

I am fully aware that this board strives to be drama free however I will not validate bad ideas and I will call out someone who gives bad advice no matter who you are.

julbgordo

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:b6f19fe4-fa65-4b32-8cc5-0d7f80dfac5b">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]Katelyn, I've seen the things you've posted on other boards.  I'm a military bride and the things you've said about certain other military brides and branches are extremely rude to the military in general and will not be acceptable here.  I'm honestly offended by the things you said. I am fully aware that this board strives to be drama free however I will not validate bad ideas and I will call out someone who gives bad advice no matter who you are.
Posted by spiffycoolbeans[/QUOTE]

<div>I think if there is something that you don't agree with than it's fine to speak your mind.  But I do think that what beach did was unnecessary, rude and childish.  Katelyn came back here to get away from the drama and start fresh and I have no problem giving her that chance.</div><div>
</div><div>I think that if someone comes seeking advice about wedding ideas, then holding onto other past dramas and not being helpful is pointless.  You don't have to agree with her or things that have happened in the past, but when the topic at hand has nothing to do with those past differences, it's important to look past them and move on.</div>

Rethany

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:1415bf53-1506-4ea2-b7d1-43bc59c2c8ef">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: New sort of : I think if there is something that you don't agree with than it's fine to speak your mind.  But I do think that what beach did was unnecessary, rude and childish.  Katelyn came back here to get away from the drama and start fresh and I have no problem giving her that chance.<strong> I think that if someone comes seeking advice about wedding ideas, then holding onto other past dramas and not being helpful is pointless.  You don't have to agree with her or things that have happened in the past, but when the topic at hand has nothing to do with those past differences, it's important to look past them and move on.</strong>
Posted by julbgordo[/QUOTE]

Agreed to the bolded part.  If she is really willing to start new and ask honest wedding related questions without bringing up past difference I'm fine with giving my honest advice.  I just don't want to hear that I'm being unfair if she ever has a terrible idea that I don't agree with.  As previously stated, I won't validate bad ideas for anyone, no matter if I have past differences or not.

Carrie1208

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:1c62c557-c7a5-4632-937d-0a0816b52448">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]Thanks for keeping the integrity of the board girls! :) you're the best!
Posted by MaryLaura13[/QUOTE]

Agreed!

julbgordo

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:03f38bb5-48e2-452b-a0b0-bf92b1f8db83">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: New sort of : Agreed to the bolded part.  If she is really willing to start new and ask honest wedding related questions without bringing up past difference I'm fine with giving my honest advice. <strong> I just don't want to hear that I'm being unfair if she ever has a terrible idea that I don't agree with.</strong>  As previously stated, I won't validate bad ideas for anyone, no matter if I have past differences or not.
Posted by spiffycoolbeans[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I don't think anyone would hold your opinions against you or think you were being unfair.  I just don't want grudges to ruin peoples wedding planning.  This board should be as helpful as possible, whether that means supporting an idea or disagreeing with it, as long as it's constructive criticism, it's welcome.

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TeamMoriarty

OP, when is your wedding and what is a little about you and FI?

MMRoberts11

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:1c62c557-c7a5-4632-937d-0a0816b52448">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]Thanks for keeping the integrity of the board girls! :) you're the best!
Posted by MaryLaura13[/QUOTE]

I agree with this completely!  Everyone on this board is amazing; which is one reason why I wanted to be the mod.  Feel free to post any planning ideas you have that you would like to share and get others opinions on.  If anyone causes problems I'll take care of it so don't worry!

DrPB2b13

I have to say, it's things like this that make me proud to be part of this board.  The fact that we can talk things out like adults.  I am sure that if there are any problems with any posters here, we will deal with it then.  But until there are problems on this board specifically, there is no need for issue; and once we move past a problem, there's no need for it to continue.

Yay for maturity!  Thanks ladies

kezim

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_new-sort-of?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:ec78e91d-a5fa-4389-a8ae-cd939015439fPost:e8f7f586-adc9-4fb4-aef7-f4dabeee9ff0">Re: New sort of</a>:
[QUOTE]OP, when is your wedding and what is a little about you and FI?
Posted by TeamMoriarty[/QUOTE]
My wedding date is June 2, 2012. My fiance and I have been together for 3 years this July. He is an amazing man in the National Guard. I am a sophomore in college. If there's anything else you wanna know just ask :)

midgetthemighty

I'm glad that this board is capable of being so mature. It's quite refreshing. Part of that is being able to express your opinion on something whether or not it is agreeing or disagreeing in a civilized manner. All of us so far do this well, which is awesome. So spiffy (and anyone else worried about that), no need to worry about us thinking you're being unfair if you disagree with someone. I know that I want honest, kind answers and I am sure everyone else does too!

This board rocks my socks!