I am going to TK etiquette hell on this but I put on our reception card "please join us for Adult-Only Reception." We have some folks who believe they can bring little Ricky and everything is fine; especially since he can sit and eat off the same plate. Heck no! I have to laugh at TK rules sometimes because people state just call and tell them no if they rsvp with the kids. Well if the kid is a baby, how do you rsvp for a baby? You don't! They just bring them anyway!