Welp ladies,FI and I have changed our wedding from May 2010 to October 2009. I'm so excited yet overwhelmed! We scrapped the venue and caterer. Now we are doing the ceremony at the church I was raised in; it's free, and the reception at my sister's home, again free except for the tent rental. Yaaaay for inexpensive! Wish us luck that we can pull off a nice, classy affair in 2 months.