she has some nerve. So BM#1 goes to her house and her ragedy @ss
man walks in, doesnt even speak to #1 or her kids, and proceeds to use #2's shower( which tells me u were out doing some stuff u had no business doing since the shower is the first place u went, and u dont work...so ya aint dirty!), go lays in HER bed, to watch HER tv. She starts talkin to #1, and he keeps interuptting by screaming for her from the other room. so she told BM #1 (not me....the bride, the person you need to be talkin to) that she feels so bad, but she is going to get her dress. BM #1 told her she ran out of time, its too late, the deadline was 2 weeks ago....basically, ur out of the wedding. Told her that her dress isnt even coming in til end of january and alterations still need to be done. #2 said she will order hers online and itll come faster (dont know where she got this info, cuz its not true. the dresses are made to order, not sittin ina factory somewhere. and ordering online is what the girls in the store do, but it STILL takes months to come in) and so she thinks hers should come in february, and she will have her property manager at her apt do her alterations. what the helll?
Now knowing her man, he put her up to this. I KNOW he told her " F her, if I aint invited, u cant go either" and she is so sprung she will listen to that ish.
Basically, youre stalling knowing full well u have no intention of coming to the wedding.
FI said he is going to handle it and call her and halfway dog her out for bein ragedy and tell her thanks but no thanks. i dont have the pateince to listen to the BS. His feelings are hurt. Mine arent hurt at all, i find it comical that u are giving us the run around, and not even directly, like we are dumb and dont know whats up