Did anyone else have a hard time getting your FI to understand who to invite and who not to invite? My FI is not saying we should invite everyone but he also says we have to make cuts?!? I keep saying when are you going to make the cut after they send you the RSVP card back and say hey i've booked my flight. We are having a destination wedding and only want about 50 people to come. I really think it's going to be that many people (if we watch the guest list) however my FI is saying oh we have to invite this couple b/c we used to hang out with them. However I'd rather make sure all our family member are invited b/c 1) they are more likely to come and 2) they are family! Also I'd like to make the cuts now prior to paying for a STD, Invitation and Stamp (cause hey if not that's wasting money)! I know that some people maybe upset b/c they don't make the guest list and I'm ok with saying well we are having a small ceremony with family and close friends! I just don't know why my FI doesn't get it. Sorry if I sound like i'm rambling I've been thinking about this since Wednesday and our conversation about it aren't changing and now I'm starting to feel like am I crazy!