African American Weddings

I object!

I have only seen it happen in the movies when the priest says, "If anyone objects to this union speak now or forever hold your peace", someone says something. Has anyone ever seen this happen in real life or heard of it happening?

I have never seen or heard this but I would be humiliated if it did. I know one or two people who are not supportive of our relationship but I know they wouldn't dare.


Wedding date July 7, 2012

Re: I object!

  • cincy2011cincy2011 member
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    edited December 2011
    Never seen it in real life, and I would HOPE no one would have the nerve to try that mess at our wedding.  We don't play that!  Laughing
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  • ellone400ellone400 member
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    edited December 2011
    anyone can object but the wedding will go on  it not like the marriage isnt validated
    I wish someone would object ! not having that mess
  • edited December 2011
    Carla, I live in Houston do you need me there with my nikes and vaseline? i will sit some folks down!! those parts can be edited.
  • edited December 2011
    Cherry Blossom,

    ROTFL

    I know that's right! I will need someone to call security with the quickness! Better yet if anyone walks into the church with an attitude they will be asked to leave! No need for bitterness on my day. lol



    Wedding date July 7, 2012
  • edited December 2011
    I got you Carla!!  we keeping the haters away.  lol
  • edited December 2011
    Just carry a pocket knife in your bouquet.


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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_object?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:9f05acb4-8b04-4373-adfa-60085f3a74faPost:eaaf9552-15c2-42d2-9294-3baeb51a7b3f">Re: I object!</a>:
    [QUOTE]Never seen it in real life, and I would HOPE no one would have the nerve to try that mess at our wedding.  <strong>We don't play that! 
    </strong>Posted by cincy2011[/QUOTE]


    WHAT?! Exactly. I would embarass myself & the person who had the balls to try & ruin my day! Cops would be called for sure & it would be ME to be arrested for throwing the first punch...lol.
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  • edited December 2011
    Never witnessed this, but I wish someone would try it! lol
  • edited December 2011
    Boooooooooooyyyyyyyyyyy I wish a mug would!!!!!!!!!! I have never seen this but if someone wanted to get hurt, this would be the way to do it!!! My BM's are on point though, they told me not to mess up my dress, they would jump the person and then we would all carry on with the ceremony LOL!
  • edited December 2011
    My girl is carrying a kitchen butcher knife just to make sure there isn't a NO in the house... and she knows how to throw that sucka LOL
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  • sharonda1981sharonda1981 member
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    edited December 2011
    Never seen it in real life but his best man, said he is jokingly going to do it. I told him I will cut him if he did it foreal. I do have a wedding nightmare sometimes about my FIs baby momma doing it. She doesn't give me any drama but everyone knows she envy's me for becoming the wife she wishes she could have been. I will cut her ass too!
  • missqueensmissqueens member
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    edited December 2011

    Never saw in real life. But this post made me think of that episode of A DIFFERENT WORLD where Dwayne Wayne finally got his ish together and did that to Whitley at her wedding (She was marrying somebody else). Dwayne  just started walking down the aisle saying vows and ended with "BABY, PLEASE!!!!" 

    It MADE for great tv, but probably not so great in real life Undecided

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