So.... our guest list is entirely too large and we still have more people to invite so we have decided to have two receptions... one at the church immediately after the ceremony and our church pictures which we are calling the appetizer reception and then one later on with around 150 guests that will be a formal reception. Is anyone else having to do this? If so, how are you doing the invitiations?
Re: Two Receptions
It allowed the church family to come to the wedding with a short reception, but it didn't make them have to limit their formal reception later, but I agree it can be tricky.
Some people are easily offended, so I wouldn't keep it a secret I would be honest about the retriction and desires with both group of people.
I think Church family should understand (But lawd knows people aren't always logical)
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We're doing that! We're wording the invitations in a way where we let people know we got married and we're celebrating with a huge party, and maliing them out the day before the wedding. Doing it this way saved our wedding!
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Hope that helps you.... and in most cases, when its done like this... no-one even questions it....
This is what is known (on the knot at least) as a tiered reception. While it's nice to 'want' to inlude everyone, why not simply invite who you can afford? IMO, your reception is like a gift to your guests thanking them for being there to celebrate the day with you. To have a tiered reception is like telling some guests thanks for coming, but we don't think that much of you to invite you to the dinner and dancing.
[QUOTE]This is what is known (on the knot at least) as a tiered reception. While it's nice to 'want' to inlude everyone, why not simply invite who you can afford? IMO, your reception is like a gift to your guests thanking them for being there to celebrate the day with you. To have a tiered reception is like telling some guests thanks for coming, but we don't think that much of you to invite you to the dinner and dancing.
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I think it really depends on how you do it. Our 2nd reception is going to have the same elements as the first reception (full dinner, full open bar, DJ/dancing, etc) just less formal and a lot more affordable. Sometimes a 300 person guest list just isn't in the budget, so you just have to do what you gotta do...
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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Two Receptions : I think it really depends on how you do it. Our 2nd reception is going to have the same elements as the first reception (full dinner, full open bar, DJ/dancing, etc) just less formal and a lot more affordable. Sometimes a 300 person guest list just isn't in the budget, so you just have to do what you gotta do...
Posted by raganw[/QUOTE]
If a 300 person guest list is not in the budget, then why not cut your guest list to an affordable budget? Either way, although I think this is all a matter of opinion and is probably acceptable and the norm in some areas, people could be offended if they come to your wedding and are only invited to a 'portion' of the celebration.