okay like I didnt already have enough stress on my shoulders. Then my dad comes over and throughs a fit. My dad was supposed to come over for the last week and give me $2700 for a few vendors. He parked in my drive way and yelled for me. I came saw that all my nieghbors were out and he just started yelling at me. The first thing he said was that our prior arrangement was off because I didnt lose any weight and was still a fat bitch. I told him he needs to except me for who I am and right now who I am is over weight. He then proceeded to tell me that I need to grow up and he hates me everybody else hates me told me repeatedly over i was fat and a bitch and he didnt want to pay for the wedding. So I finally got a word in and told him i didnt want him to pay for the wedding either and to get off my property. He threw the checks at me and drove off. It was awful I have been crying stright for two days. I am not reaching out for a pity party but I dont really have anyone right now to talk about it too. FI and moh out of town. When I told my mom she freaked. So it wasnt that easy to talk to her she kind of just turned it into told you so and about her. But not really on purpose she was just very very angry. So do i cash the checks? My whole family (dads side) said he said all of it just to hope i cancel the wedding so he dont have to pay. Because he is and always has been just about money. I just cant believe he would hurt me that bad just to get out of paying. He could have just told me he wasnt going to pay anymore. Oh and trust me he can afford it. As a example her has five bikes. One of which made by jesse james company