Hi everyone,
I'm Jewish, and I'm marrying a Greek Orthodox guy. We've discussed various ways of including both of our faiths, and have found a few rabbis that are willing to officiate or co-officiate our wedding. At first, we were talking about just trying to incorporate some Greek elements into the wedding without having an actual priest, but finding out that the priest runs the entire ceremony, we were unsure of what we could do. We've also been told Orthodox priests are usually unwilling to co-officiate anyway (though we haven't decided officially whether to have one even if we could find one willing).
We're going to talk more w/ the rabbis we have found, but were interested in hearing if anyone else had experience and what they decided to do.
Re: Greek Orthodox/Jewish Wedding
So, I look forward to hearing from you folks! - Terran
RabbiSpiegel@comcast.net
Oh of course, you and your fiance make the decisions, but I know exactly what you are going through with trying to please everyone. Most likely me and my fiance will get a rabbi only because a priest doesnt want to perform the marriage, theyre so difficult lol. We went to see this rabbi over the weekend but he was horrible, he offended my fiance a numorous amount of times and was talking with his mouth full. A complete weirdo. But we will def as well keep both traditions somehow because I value both and respect both. I will def let you know how everything is going. Our wedding is so far away its next august 21st, how about ur wedding?
I'm having the same problem here! I'm Serbian Orthodox and my FI is Russian Jewish (and also Italian Catholic). I really want to get married in the Orthodox Church, but the priests are pretty unwilling to work with any other religion, let alone co-officiate. FI would like to have Jewish traditions as well, so we will most likely have to do those at the reception. Our wedding is 11-5-11, but we are going to meet with the priest to see what our options are. What a pain! I really dont want to get married anywhere but the church I've gone to for 25 years.
My significant other and I are talking seriously about marriage. It is difficult because I am Jewish and he was raised in a traditional catholic home (I'm american and he is from Mexico). He is set on getting married in a church or synagague (as long as it is "in front of god" and not like at a country club or outdoor facility.
I worry where and who we will be able to have marry us, for we want to incorporate both cultural traditions. It is challenging.
I am also Catholic and my fiance is Greek Orthodox and we are also looking to have the ceremony outside. We will be going a Greek wedding. Any info you get would be great!
I live in Philadelphia and am Christian Orthodox. My fiance is not a religious person and was never baptized, so, of course, we cannot get married in my Orthodox church b/c the priest will not marry us!
We are having our ceremony at our reception venue and converting the room...
Looking for a wedding officiant who can perform a non denominational ceremony, but who can incorporate the Orthodox traditions (crowns, walking around the alter 3 x's, etc.). Does anyone in the tri state area (NY, NJ, PA) have any recommendations on officiants who could do this???
Thanks!!
-J