I honestly don't know the sanskrit name for them. Yesterday FI had his thread ceremony at his apartment. When I got there, his mom had drawn swastikas on the entrance in preparation for the puja. I have tried to talk to fi about how important it is to me that we not have them at our wedding, but I am scared that because I can't micro-manage everything I'll walk in to find what look to me like swastikas as part of our decor. And that if they get drawn that his family will be bothered if someone tries to erase them. He gets it, but his parents do not listen very much and he doesn't really stand up to them, plus I don't think that they get why it's such a big deal to westerners. Has anybody run into this problem?