What is an old-school Indian tradition you're not including in your big day? I personally hate the tradition of having all your outfits and jewelry that your parents gave you for display for your in-laws to see. I think it desensitizes the gifts your parents gave you and frankly, it's nobody elses business! Whatever my Mom and Dad give me, after my wedding, it's mine - it's not for public view. I know this is a gujarati tradition that is on its way out of practice (if it hasn't been retired completely) but it bothers me.
Also, the Vidhai ceremony may be skipped. I'll be moving to another country entirely (England), and I do not want to have to bear the vidhai. I know I'll cry uncontrollably and my parents will be very overwhelmed by emotions and I do not want to do that. I think it would take away from the day.