So I have come up with an idea for the wedding. Wed, August 14, 2013 for private ceremony (just me, FI, FI 10 y/o son, my mom, Best Man, MOH, and the officant), get a photographer and the a party on Sat, August 17 for family and friends. Maybe get married at a park or the beach. And then show the wedding pictures at the reception.
The 14th of August is my deceased dad's bday. Since my dad passed away and this is my 3rd marriage and 2nd for FI, we have already done the big wedding thing.