I am having a ceremony in September and there are some members of my family that I would like to invite, however, I am not sure how they will feel when they are aware that I am with another woman. Mind you, I do not see these family members very often so unless I write them or something beforehand theres no way they would know. My parents really do not approve, but my one brother and his wife are supportive, so it's a mix. I was wondering if I should include a letter in with the invitations or send a letter out before to those family members letting them know? I am also planning on taking her to my family reunion which will be in July. I dont know how many people will be there though that would be invited to the wedding. Any thoughts?