Hi, I'm Kalithia and I feel so alone with this wedding stuff. My girlfriend/ fiancee is Courtney and she is letting me do whatever as long as I don't spend a lot of money. We are planning an October wedding but I think it's too soon. I would like it pushed to March or April 212. I have a wedding dress already but scared to plan anything else because I don't want to run into homophobic people. We live in North Carolina and wanted to have a wedding and reception here but first go to Mass. for the legal stuff. The wedding colors are set, it will be a small event of no more than 50 people, and there will be no wedding party. I want to make my own food (or get a friend to make it) that way it would be free. Haven't even started on wedding invites (wording) or anything else. Only thing is a goo is the wedding dress has been order. I need some serious help and really would like a gay wedding planner but don't think I will find that in NC.