Hi. FI and I have decided on a date and possibly a location. However there are a few issues as always! We're considering my childhood home. It's a ranch that my grandparents are now living at due to my parents divorce, 10+ years ago. No one wanted to sell the property so my grandparents took it over. I have hopes of inheriting it in my future. Anyways, once I told my dad about our thoughts of getting married there he quickly started trying to persuade me into looking other venues. I thought it was odd since he's been cordial with my mother and her side of the family during birthdays and such. But then I remembered my father hasn't been out at the ranch since he left. Am I wrong to not accommodate my father for our wedding? Eventually he will need to go back out to the ranch because one day I will live there. The place is very wedding cost friendly to us too. Thank you! Sarah
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[QUOTE]first, are your grandparents allowing you to have a wedding at their home?
Posted by Wzz[/QUOTE]
i don't know your dad, and i don't see that you said it actually makes him uncomfortable, so i think you need more information from him directly before making a decision.
Before you decide, Maybe you could look at other options and then compare pros and cons. i almost had my wedding at a family members ranch, but i quickly realized it would cost more to rent everything rather than just go to a wedding venue where things are all included. that being said, i think if you really want to have it there, than you should. i agree that dad can suck it up for 1 day. you should have the wedding you want.