I would like an objective opinion from some of the ladies on here...

hmonkey

you seem to be throwing out a lot of extraneous facts in order to get all of us on your side and seem to be frustrated that we aren't all flocking there.  (and playing the infertility card wins you nothing, especially here.)

dude, there is enough bad behaviour on all your parts.  the fact that nena was *more* wrong doesn't make your behaviour *less* wrong.

if you are that upset over how nena treated tracy, then you need to work on being less enmeshed, even if that means not attending nena's wedding.

btw, i am sure many of us go longer than a week without talking to our siblings, even the ones we get along with.

skidog75

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_i-would-like-an-objective-opinion-from-some-of-the-ladies-on-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:47Discussion:6aa82f9e-1772-4cab-965d-3c619e74e08dPost:e9e113d7-9f95-4c05-87d6-7a27a263d8a1">Re: I would like an objective opinion from some of the ladies on here...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I would like an objective opinion from some of the ladies on here... : we already read your wall of text, and provided the solicited input.  don't expect everyone to do more than skim your multiple follow-up posts on "what you really meant".
Posted by *Barbie*[/QUOTE]

Then why take the time to respond at all with a pissy remark if you don't have the interest to provide something constructive?  You win at the message board, congrats!

GBCK

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_i-would-like-an-objective-opinion-from-some-of-the-ladies-on-here?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:6aa82f9e-1772-4cab-965d-3c619e74e08dPost:0d98f184-84ab-4910-8cd2-17011a8ba322">Re: I would like an objective opinion from some of the ladies on here...</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: I would like an objective opinion from some of the ladies on here... : Then why take the time to respond at all with a pissy remark if you don't have the interest to provide something constructive?  You win at the message board, congrats!
Posted by skidog75[/QUOTE]

<div>the colloary to this is the equally logical "Why are you asking a bunch of random strangers (whose board you have OBVIOUSLY not lurked on, so you're literally throwing a dart at a group and hoing for the best) and then getting upset because their reaction isn't what you say it should be?  Congrats, you win at...oh wait, no, you loose."</div><div><img id="rg_hi" style="width:194px;height:259px;" class="rg_hi" src="https://encrypted-tbn0.google.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcSI3G5n_ksg2-qIsm9YX_8nvoNDF3-QE1HOFhIQ2KejdG4pcPcULg" alt="" width="194" height="259" /></div>

ReturnOfKuus

If your sister is old enough to get married, then she's old enough not to need her parents or you to pay for the wedding.  And as far as picking a bridal party based on who will do the most pre-party planning rather than who is closest to you, well, your sister is assy there, too.

I agree with Baconsmom.  Everyone here is acting like they're entitled to things from someone else, from your sister and the money and bridal shower and bachelorette party, to you and your wife and the groveling and gratitude.  I will say, though, that if you feel paternal toward your sister, and you don't want her to be the spoiled, entitled brat she has acted throughout her whole wedding fiasco, then teach her to be otherwise by not giving her all that damned money.

Wzz

huh.

i thought the full disclosure was "i'm a guy".

L_Woods

You did not want objective opinions. You wanted us all to agree with you and tell you your sister is a suckypantsbrat.

Hilraythebride

First of all, it is really nice to see a male on TK!!

Now, you both are in the wrong here.  Your sister was wrong to ask your MOH to step down when she did nothing but help her and answer a question that your sister asked.  You were wrong when you pulled both of you out of the wedding.  It is one of those things where to wrongs don't make a right and you both acted in a childish manor.

I think you will really regret not being in or even going to your sisters wedding for a long time since she will always be your sister but the issues may fade away.