I posted on FB about this, but my niece is in the hospital. After running a bunch of tests and still not figuring out what was going on, they did a CT scan and it's her appendix. She's having surgery today.
DH and I were up late again last night because we didn't get the news about my niece until after 10pm. My IL's are heading out to be with SIL and help out with my other niece tonight or tomorrow.
DH wants to go with my IL's and take the kiddo with him. I'm trying to figure out what the point of that would be. The hospital is over an hour away from SIL's and her house is completely packed up (for their move). They've been living in temp housing on base.
So that means that they would be staying in a hotel and hanging out in a hospital all weekend. I think the situation would be much better served if we a) went to Peoria for the weekend like we planned for his cousins graduation. We could represent for his family or b) stay in town and make sure that our house and my IL's house are ready for SIL and the girls to be here (the plan was for SIL to meet us in Peoria and then she was going to come to Indy to wait for her H to come home on leave from being deployed and then they were going to head down to their new base).
But I think DH thinks he can fix something by being there. But I think that there's going to be too many people and that will add to my niece's and SIL's stress. I think his parents being there will be enough.
And let's not even mention the fact that we spent a lot of money to get our air conditioner fixed this week and we don't really have it in the budget for a trip to a place that's 8 hours away, involves a hotel stay, and eating out for 8-10 meals.
Andplusalso, since I put my foot down pretty much from the get-go that me and the baby would NOT be going unless niece was critical, that means I get to spend my 3 day weekend completely alone w/o my family and with a 2 mo old baby. I'm not exactly sure if I'm really ready for DH to be 8 hours away for 3 days.
So I'm trying to figure out how to get DH to understand this w/o an argument. That's going to be hard because a) we're both running on very little sleep from having a rough 2 nights in a row and b) DH is very illogical and over emotional when it comes to his family, especially in 'crisis' situations. ::sigh::
I just want to go back to bed and snuggle my baby and wake up when the weekend is over.