why cant people just be happy and get along

MustangGirl08

So Its 82 days till our wedding and it seems as though people are out to get us. Pople are bringing up things from the past which is getting  me very upset and one of  my bridesmaids just backed out which may be a good thing since she called my mother a psycho and was beeing too pushy and shooting down all of my maid of honors ideas for a bridal shower. adn why should I even be hearing about bridal shower problems last time I hecked the bride should not be involved at alll but yet more added stress. I so wish I just eloped but my fiancee' wanted the big wedding so he can reconect with his family and since marriage is about give and take I gave in now I have had nothing but stress and anxiety. anyone else going thru anything similar?

*Barbie*

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[QUOTE]So Its 82 days till our wedding and it seems as though people are out to get us. Pople are bringing up things from the past which is getting  me very upset and one of  my bridesmaids just backed out which may be a good thing since she called my mother a psycho and was beeing too pushy and shooting down all of my maid of honors ideas for a bridal shower. adn why should I even be hearing about bridal shower problems last time I hecked the bride should not be involved at alll but yet more added stress. I so wish I just eloped but my fiancee' wanted the big wedding so he can reconect with his family and since marriage is about give and take I gave in now I have had nothing but stress and anxiety. anyone else going thru anything similar?
Posted by MustangGirl08[/QUOTE]

bust out your aluminum foil hat, and get into the bunker before you do your cake tastings - best to be safe with everyone out to get you.

It sounds like you and your WP and your family are a bunch of drama queens. We didn't have similar issues because my H and I didn't create drama, didn't go looking for it, and chose to ignore it when it occurred.

NOLABridesmaid

Rodney King wondered the same thing.

MustangGirl08

My family is fine it was 1 bridesmaid in particular. She pretty much insulted all of my MOH and familys ideas when they are the ones who know me best not her. Drama always follows her around I should have known better but she dropped out so maybe things can go somewhat smoothly now.