So Its 82 days till our wedding and it seems as though people are out to get us. Pople are bringing up things from the past which is getting me very upset and one of my bridesmaids just backed out which may be a good thing since she called my mother a psycho and was beeing too pushy and shooting down all of my maid of honors ideas for a bridal shower. adn why should I even be hearing about bridal shower problems last time I hecked the bride should not be involved at alll but yet more added stress. I so wish I just eloped but my fiancee' wanted the big wedding so he can reconect with his family and since marriage is about give and take I gave in now I have had nothing but stress and anxiety. anyone else going thru anything similar?