I need help trying to figure out the wedding party seating arrangements. We will be sitting on a small raised up stage area where all the wedding guests will of course be able to see us. I want to sit with the MOH BM my groom and myself. I have been having lots of other people give me their opinions. I have people saying do the whole wedding party or do the sweetheart table. I have people telling me that they have never heard of the MOH and BM sit with the bride and groom at their table. Then when I talk to my sister who is the MOH she says the only way shes going to sit up with us is if the whole wedding party is going to be there too... I don't know what to do.. I want what I want, and then have the rest of the people giving me their opinions which is of course causing me to second guess... what do i do.. HELP!!!