Dash for Cash

jsites12

I don't like the idea of doing a Dollar Dance and at a friend's wedding recently, she did a Dash for Cash where her and the groom made a bet (loser had to do the dishes for a month) and whoever got the most money won. I'm considering doing it but I'm not sure if it's appropriate.

Thoughts?

Thanks!

pandasquishy

I don't think that's appropriate.  Anything like this or a money dance should be skipped.

apaadzzzz

I don't like the idea of incorporating anything having to do with money at a wedding.

jenn.daniel

Not appropriate.

alyssalowe

I dont like the idea the greatest BUT you could do something like that and include 'or pass on some words of advice for a great marriage" so that people that dont have the cash or dont like the idea of giving cash can still join along.. Plus guests will want to know who won if you tell them and counting the cash at the recption screams tacky/greedy...

bbyckes

This is just strange. Strange. And tacky.

topchef33

Your guests should not have to give you any $ for a dance or for a bet. Please don't do it.

aerinpegadrak

Umm, no.  The only redeeming value of the dollar dance is that it gives the bride and groom the opportunity for a bit more one-on-one time with the guests.  What you're proposing is just flat-out begging for cash.  You might as well sit at the door of the reception with an overturned hat and a sign that says "Homeless plz help".

eandringa

just comes down to your families traditions and beliefs. Both mine and fiances families do the dollar dance at weddings so it has been said we are too.

trix1223

Awful.  Just awful.  Do you really want to be panhandling in a wedding dress?  Did I mention that it's awful?

aerinpegadrak

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[QUOTE]I don't like the idea of doing a Dollar Dance and at a friend's wedding recently, she did a Dash for Cash where her and the groom made a bet (loser had to do the dishes for a month) and whoever got the most money won. I'm considering doing it but I'm not sure if it's appropriate. Thoughts? Thanks!
Posted by jsites12[/QUOTE]
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quotequeen

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[QUOTE]just comes down to your families traditions and beliefs. Both mine and fiances families do the dollar dance at weddings so it has been said we are too.
Posted by eandringa[/QUOTE]

The dollar dance is possibly forgivable when it's done because it's an expected tradition in your family.  Making up a new game involving money is not.  It just looks like you're trying to weasel more money from your guests.  Which you are.

MyNameIsNot

I'm continually appalled by the levels people will sink to for a little cash.

Dancing for dollars is sad enough.  Now this?  

arllinma

I think it must be a regional thing. I've never seen it done, nor have I seen the money tree or any other money thing at a wedding. I would personally NOT donate if it was done at a wedding I went to, not only because its tacky but I probably already spent money on an engagement gift,  bridal shower gift, wedding gift, outfit to wear and travel expenses. I would be tapped out anyways!