Now that I am an Oct.bride. I want to use warm colors and would love a romantic vibe for the reception. My venue is a garden with lots of twinkle lights as well as reception space. It is the same place just having the reception inside. There are twinkle lights,ivy and candles. I was thinking of using plum,lavender with white and black accents like my dress... What other colors would go with my dress? No gold,red or green please:)