I am just starting out looking at venues and MANY of them say that there are no outside caterers allowed. I am fine with this for the food, I find it very convenient to not have to deal with 50 different people just to coordinate my dishes, however, my sister is a pastry chef and her gift to us is the wedding cake. I really REALLY want to use her cake - does that mean I can't go to the "no caterer" venues, or is that only for the hors d'oeurves and main course? Has anyone here used a venue that was exclusive about their food but NOT about their cake? I'm just looking to get a general feel on what the norm is here. Thank you!
PS i know there will likely be a cake cutting fee but I am not really concerned about that, just if they'll let us use it at all. Thanks!