I just got engaged and my fiance and I both have large families. I really want a ceremony and reception but he rather go somewhere by ourselves, get married and come back and have a party. I told him I think it would be the same thing. I'm not sure what to do because our families are so large and it is going to cost us a lot of money that we really dont have. The other thing is that his family is all hispanic, and most of them don't speak english. My family is all italian, so I also don't know how to mix the two and make both of them happy. Any suggestions or ideas?