OK. So both my groom and I have VERY large families so our guest list is already reached our budget with just family alone. However there are friends and family friends that want to come to our wedding. The only problem: we can't afford it, and we'd love for them to be there. Not invited them would hurt their feelings, but we really can't invited them do to said budget. How can I tell then they didn't make the list without hurting any feelings, and still have them celebrate our wedding with us in some way?