We are a little over a year out and are starting to put together a budget.We are going to have about 5k to spend and we want to invite about 125 people. We are trying to figure out a way that we can still have a nice reception without going over our budget. Do you guys think a cocktail hour with Hors d'œuvre, then cake and dancing would be okay or rude to not to provide a meal? If we cut out dinner we will be able to swing an open bar instead of just beer/wine/signature drink.