We only have 100 chairs and the wedding planner has already told me that pople can not stand becasue they wil be in the photographers way. So anyway I told MIL to give me her list of people to invite. I know we are not ready to do the invitations but the STD are about o go out and if you get a STD you get and Invite. Anyway she still has not given me her list. I am so afraid some of her family won t be invited because she won t tell me know she wants to be there. Oh well and the other thing she is doing to drive me crazy is she wasts FI and I to sit down and burn a CD of all our favorite songs to be back groung music on the riverboat for our rehersal dinner. I don t want background noice, I think the ocean is enough....