So I posted about my situation here:
http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-theme-boards_destination-weddings_this-count-dw-totally-weirdrude
My question is, how do I word the invitation for the AHR happening two days after the wedding? I'll need to get a head count to the caterers two weeks in advance, so I'll need RSVPs for this way before the wedding actually happens.