okay, so when I started planning my wedding I called my mom to let her know that I did not want her boyfriend to come. They have been together for about 4 years now, and its not that I don't like him but that I don't want to deal with walking on egg shells around him at my wedding. I also worry that it will make my dad feel uncomfortable (who raised my sister and i when my parents divorced and is still not over my mother). My father will not be bringing a date so I do not think that my mom should bring one either.
Anyways, when I called her to talk to her about this back in March she seemed okay with it. Yesterday my sister called me to let me know that she is thinking about bringing him. I called her today and she was! His name is not on the invitation, and now she is trying to guilt trip me into inviting him. She said that he will be really hurt if he finds out he is not invited. (plus, my family would be flying from detroit to denver to come to the wedding, so he would be here for 3-4 days).
I don't know what to do. I really do not want him at the wedding. I never get to spend time with my mom without him around.
Do you guys think that I should just invite him? I know that I am being rude leaving him off the guest list... but I really don't want him to come.
Is anyone is a similar situation?
Is it okay to not invite my mothers boyfriend?
Thanks for any advice on the subject.