July 2012 Weddings

Officiant update...

So I talked to her last night and she was very apologetic and said she felt horrible for not getting anything to me.  She aksed if I wanted to incorporate something about our girls in the ceremony and I said yes and she said she would email me a rough ceremony to look over and a worksheet thing she needs us to fill out today.  She said to let her know if I need help with anything.  That was yesterday evening and I still havent gotten anything from her! Yell  I kind of feel like if its not in my inbox when I wake up in the morning its time to find someone else.  Obviously this is not a priority for her like it is for me but I think its extremely rude to keep telling me she is going to do something and then not do it, over and over again!  I feel like she doesnt want to do our wedding anymore and wont tell me or something!  Its fine if she changed her mind.  Its not like I begged her to do it!!!  She offered when she heard I was looking for someone.  Do you think I am being unreasonable after talking with her in by phone this time, rather than email/facebook, and getting the same response with no follow thru?
:)AJ Pregnancy Ticker

Re: Officiant update...

  • Yes, I would definitely start looking for someone else if there is nothing in your inbox by the end of today...you have contacted her several times about getting the information and even getting together.  I think it's time to move on.  It is her problem if it causes a tiff between she & your mother...but I would start looking for another officiant.
  • Anxious to know whether you had a email this morning or not! Update us :)
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  • I agree that the issue is she keeps telling you sooner than she delivers. I think a sign of professionalism is to either be spot on or overestimate how long something will take. Because it is way more annoying to have to wait for something you already expected to be done than it is to be pleasnantly surprised when something happens ahead of schedule.
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  • Sorry...crazy day today! I just got home got my girls in bed. Checked my email...nothing! So...I guess its time to start looking for someone else. Ugh!
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