We haven't and I'm not sure where to start. FI works on pools for his job so he needs a ring that will not break or bend easily. I kinda want a few more diamonds on my band but other than that, I'm not sure. Is anyone getting the setting style, where you engagement ring fits into the setting? I'm not sure if I like them or not. Also, does anyone know the deal about whether or not your supposed to wear your engagement ring on your wedding day? I've heard from my MOH that it's bad luck or something.