My SIL is getting married in June on a plantation. I am in the wedding, so I don't need help with my dress. My mom, on the other hand, has NO idea what to wear. She doesn't want to walk in the wedding and scream "I am here from NJ!" I'm sure some of you have seen Real Housewives of NJ, so you know that we are rather "flashy". What is appropriate for a Charleston wedding?