I need to vent about my fi's boys! To be honest i have never fully liked some of them, but that doesnt mean i dont respect that he loves them and they are a part of hislife, I just think they are mostly selfish and immature but i can overlook those things normally. So what im getting at is that our engagement party is this Satuday yah!!! but since we sent the invites out, all but one of them has been trying to get out going, they first said they were probably going to go to the beach that weekend, when that fell through.., then they went out and bought phillies tix, then decided they didnt want to go all the way to NYC for the game so said they may stop by for a little but not stay because they want to get back down to philly to go out in the city for the night... now i definitely don't consider myself a bridzilla and normally am very mellow and unphased, but this is seriously pissing me off, i feel that this is part of thier duty to attend the majority of the party and help thibngs go smoothly. Our families have not met before, so this is also an into party for the fams and they are totally trying to ditch it just because its not something they feel like doing. I feel that they are being so selfish and can't give up one day for their best friend... this is so typical of them though, afterall, we moved out to Pittsburgh over a year ago and not one of them has made an attempt to come out and see my fi, even when he goes out of his way to make plans and get tiz for stuff.... arrgggg am I overreacting? I've already talked about it with my fi, but he is so laid back about things that it doesnt bother him and he just says that this is the way they are....any help??????