OKAY, I'll preface this by saying I'm new to TheKnot's Community Forum, so bare with me, as I really need help understanding the really confusing layout here!
1- When a new reply happens in a post, why doesn't the post pop up to the top?? so that you know someone has replied to your question, or just a reply in general occurred
2- How come no little icon pops up to tell you that you have a message! The only reason I know NOW that someone sent me a PM, is because I went to send another member a PM asking a question!
This isn't my first forum to be a member of, but it is the least user friendly one, so I'm thinking maybe I'm missing something, and one of you lovely ladies will be able to help me out