I'm currently looking for a wedding DJ who plays top 40 + classic rock + indie rock. I considered doing the ipod thing but I'm starting to think it might cause too much stress worrying about who will watch over it. I've only found 2 dj's of any interest: hello!DJ and Third from the Sun, but they are both a little pricey (around $1500).
Any other suggestions?
Re: Wedding DJ's
http://www.revolutiondiscjockey.com/
Baby #2: Surprise BFP 9.19.12, EDD 5.24.13, natural m/c 10.19.13 at 9w
They have something like 30,000 songs in their library and can get others if given enough notice. They also provide all announcements and emcee duties.