Background: my FI's uncle is a Catholic bishop who traditionally participates in all of my FI's family ceremonies.
My pastor will be presiding over the wedding (he'll do the Gospel reading and prepare the Homily), but my future uncle-in-law will be doing the vows. How do I list this in the program? According to my music director, the bishop should be listed first based on rank, but based on his role in the wedding ceremony, he'd be listed second. Any thoughts?
I looked at my sisters-in-law programs (both had the same uncle do their vows but had the local church's priest/pastor preside), and one had the two both under the heading "Celebrant," with the bishop listed first. The other had the bishop named as the presider and called the local pastor the "Concelebrant.
Does anyone know what is the correct thing to do? My priest didn't know the answer, and we haven't heard back from the SF diocese for an answer.
Re: Catholic program wording