We're getting married at the church I've been going to since I was 6, so I've been going there 20 years.
Father Michael has always been there for me, If I had an issue that I coudln't talk to anyone about I'd go to confession and talk to him whether I would be subject to penance or not.
Ever since I got engaged it's been a pain to try and get a call back from him- everyone in the office relies on him to make final wedding date and times (not a small church)
He was told he's changing parrishes and they just announced it, his new parrish will be about 15 minutes away and he told the congregation that he'd come back to to events as requested.
Finally I get a call back confirm my date and time and try and discuss Marraige classes, which I get the brush off (so to speak) and told to contact the new priest after 06.21.11. I was going to ask him to come back afterall he did all the sacrements for me except baptism.
Do you think I should ask him to come to do my wedding? But we'll be doing all our pre-marital courses with the new preist I don't want it to be a "slap in the face" PLUS my FI wasn't a memeber so he doens't have the established relationship like I do, yet I know that it's been awhile since I was an every sunday attender, but it feels like he's giving me the cold shoulder since I've become a lot less regular in attendance.
recap on questions:
1.) Invite Father Michael since i've known him forever despite teh behavior change?
2.) Go with the new preist?
3.) if we decide we don't really like the new guy, how far in advance do you think i'd need to request Father Michael to come back?
Thanks
Re: What to do about the Preist Leaving......
This sort of thing happens all the time. The priest that helped H and I through some issues switched parishes right after our wedding. In fact, we were his last wedding at our church. Had he already been moved, we were going to make the appropriate arrangements for him to still marry us in our church.
This happens when priests move all the time. In fact, just last night, I was meeting with our wedding coordinator, and she was talking about how she's really just starting to do weddings with the new priest, after a long-time favorite priest left. We are having a third priest we know from another situation celebrate the mass, but have gotten to know the new priest in the last year. When we talked to the new priest about it, he did not seem at all upset not to be doing the mass -- he clearly understood the situation.