I am looking for a way to remember my FI's grandma, who passed away this past october. Unfortunately, only the very closest in the family attended her funeral in colorado, and this will be the first time we are all together since she has passed. We will also be honoring our other grandparent's who have passed, but would like to do something a little special for her. I was originally thinking a short memorial service following our mass, where I would have a bag piper play amazing grace, but I feel this will be a little too emotional, and uncomfortable for those who have no clue what is going on. Not to mention we will all be balling and have to take pictures shortly after. What should I do?! Any suggestions on how to honor her specifically without making everyone so upset???
Re: Remembering Loved Ones
I agree with Newly that the focus should be on your marriage. H and I had a friend whose grandmother passed away something like a month before her (the friend's) wedding, and I think it was pretty unexpected. The featured her in the memorial section of their program, something like:
"In loving memory of ________________, a wonderful wife, mother, and grandmother. She is dearly loved and missed."
Then they included the names of the other family members who had passed on. It was really sweet.
I really like the idea of including her in the prayer, too.
H actually received his grandfather's wedding band to use as his own. Only family knew, but it is a wonderful tribute to him and I know H's aunt lost it after our ceremony, and Tink had been dead for years. You never know what is going to bring all those emotions back up.
My sister included the family wedding pictures at her reception, which were really cool. I didn't end up doing it because things are a bit more complicated on H's side of the family.