I grew up in the Methodist church, and am baptized and confirmed in the UMC. My family is the go to church every Sunday (and Sunday night...and Wednesday) kind of family.
My fiancé's is Catholic and has been baptized, done 1st communion and is confirmed, but his family isn't as active in the church.
Basically, I thought I'd have more control over the religious side of the wedding than I do. I went to a few RCIA classes (just to learn things. I'm NOT converting.) and felt like I was in 1st grade sunday school all over gain, so I stopped. I feel like I have a really good handle on the religion...after all, it's not *that* different than Methodist.
Question #1.
How do you promise to raise your kids Catholic if that's not what you believe? If they ask me a question, I'm not going to tell them something I don't believe. I don't understand this part of the requirements of the church. The kids have free will, they can go to whatever church they want, since they'll be exposed to both...
Question #2
My fiancé is being stubborn, insisting on having communion at our wedding. Communion is something that I hold very dear to me, and it hurts me to think I wouldn't be able to participate in this part of my own wedding. (I know a lot of priests won't even let this occur since both of us aren't Catholic...but some do. We haven't had that talk yet with the priest). The marriage will still be a sacrament since it's in a church and we're both baptized...so I don't understand why he's being so stubborn about communion when it's a known source of my frustration with the church.
Sorry for the rant...