•Hey ladies,
sorry this is not catholic related but you guys always give such great advice! My FMIL gave me her wedding dress to use and it’s pretty (very simple but pretty) and nice material. However I already had my eye on a dress and it was more princessy lol should I just use hers or buy the one I already looked at and loved. My godmother is really good with material so she could alter and add to it, which would be cheaper (but the dress I picked out isn’t that expensive). My FMIL said she wouldn’t be hurt if I didn’t use it but I feel bad for not wanting to use it (I really, really like my FMIL she is a great gal). I don’t know what to do.
So here is the question: Should I buy the dress I was looking at or use FMIL and add to it?
Thank you in advance
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Re: Help!
if she wants the gown used in some way for sentimental purpsoes, you could always have a christening gown made from it when you have your first child. that's what i plan to do with my wedding dress if/when the time comes.
Something you could do, is display her dress (and others in your or your FI's families) at the cocktail hour/reception. Or just "accessories" like the veil, headpiece, etc. This is what I did using my mother's and grandmother's wedding attire and I also had framed photos on display from their weddings (it was my guestbook table). That would be a way to honor and show off the dress without actually wearing it.
Little Gabriel: BFP 7/12/11~EDD 3/21/12, miscarried 8/24/11 at 10w