I have seen those shot lists everywhere, but when i made one and sent it to my photographer she said she doesn't work from a shot list, that it's not her style but to trust her in capturing everything. I do trust her, but should i ask for specific shots or just let it go? I understand that it's not her style and that a shot list my take away from her doing what she needs to do and i don't want to offend her in anyway, but i just want to make sure we get some of the details covered. Am i being paranoid?