Ladies, I am finalizing my seating chart and have a question regarding the do's and don'ts. Is it ok to mix up some of the tables with both sides of the family? I am confused because in one way I think (both sides see each other so much, It would be a little refreshing to mix up some tables to get to know other people) If I did mix up tables, it would be similar ages and ones with children others without. I know his side well enough that I feel like i'd be able to be a good judge on this. But..... is it necessary?? Another part of me thinks I should just keep it simple and easy and put my family members together and his together. Please help. I should have already had this done but now I have some family members involved saying I should mix it up a little and others saying just leave it. Like I said, I could go both ways. I just don't want my guests to feel uncomfortable. which, I don't feel like they would (maybe some) But I was trying to do like a few from his side, a few from mine so that they would know someone at the table but meet new people as well.. Sorry for rambling on. you get my point. I am going crazy. getting married on Saturday. have been going to bed at 2am the last few nights and feel like all these little things I never thought about keep popping up.