I am having a tough time with my MOH and 2 BMs, and I need some advice.
I went to the "Maids" board, but those ladies are cruel, and to be honest, I am really emotionally fragile right now because of this...
I just transferred colleges this semester. I had a great group of friends at my old school, and I picked three of them to be in my wedding party soon after getting engaged, with one being my MOH, known her for 6 years now.
Since transferring, I found myself and all three of these ladies to be drifting apart. (MOH turned into big slutbag...idc...not my life, but personality has taken a 180) They are now planning all these trips, outings, wine tours etc, and are constantly posting about how "Life is so much better when your SINGLE", how great their group halloween costumes are...lame high school s*it, IMO.
MOH actually lied to me about one of the trips that they actually invited me on, fully knowing I couldn't go, and said it was the only time they could afford to go..total BS...did my research...
My wedding is in June, and its coming to a time when I need to get at least one of them to try on dresses, and they all have "convieniently" been too busy to do that. My mom asked MOH for help with shower, bach party..she said she didn't want to.
It is not a requirement as MOH to help, but it would have been a nice gesture...
Lastly, MOH and I got in a huge brawl over the summer about a comment she made to someone else that was a low-blow at me, of course. We didnt speak for over two months, and I thought things were getting better until I saw her this past weekend (with the other 2 BMs), and I couldn't even have a conversation with her, or any of them for that. They left me at the bar (to go be "single girls" and f*ck the next thing that smiled at them). Luckily FI was in town, or I wouldn't have gotten home that night.
Being around them makes me so upset to the point of tears, and it seems that things are only going to get worse before they get better (if they do).
I am so sorry this is super long...its more of a vent, but I haven't slept in two nights because of this, and am really distressed about it. Please, any advice....
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