Hi girls,
Well, my ex-husband and i are getting re-married

The first time was at the courthouse in Vegas after 12 days of knowing one another....no one was there but us. It lasted 3 years. Was off for 2...fast forward 7 more years and two sons...I never thought I'd want to get married again, but i am swept away with the excitement and romance of it. He proposed in Feb. Now, we're agreed on a really quaint, sweet ceremony, BUT, he then wants people to have a few cocktails and leave...game over. I totally want a swinging party! His worry is all the money we will spend and he absolutely refuses to let my dad pay for it. We have the money...it's just he'd rather spend it on the honeymoon. I'm torn. I agree with him on the vacation part, but don't want to lose my "wedding" a second time. I wish i could have both! I'm desperately trying to come up with a compromise. Any suggestions fellow San Diegans??? How can I throw a great party for 60 without spending thousands?