My sister finally told me the date for my BP. Unfortunatly it's the same day as my "surprise" bridal shower. My BM is upset because she told my sister the date. We can't have both events on the same day because the BP is an entire weekend in Atlantic city (3-4 hrs away) I asked my BM if she could bump the date up but based on the venue policy she can't. I'm not sure how to resolve this issue. ETA: I can't push the BP back because fi and I are planning a birthday party for two of our children on July 14. July 21st is nixed because my sister is a BM for a different wedding in Texas. I'm don't want to seem ungrateful but I told my BM from day 1 NO bridal shower. Now I have to deal with this crap. Blah!