So I have 4 of my very best friends as part of my bridal party. My best friend, Shannon, since 7th grade I asked to be my Maid of Honor, and I asked my best friend, Kristin, since college/former roomate to be my Matron of Honor. Shannon is not understanding that they are both MOH's, she's like if I am standing next to you then I am your MOH, blah blah blah. The main reason I asked both of them is Shannon is still very wild (for example when she came to visit last month she got fall down drunk, tried to leave with some random guy at wall street, and then slept with my good guy friend) while Kristin is the mother of 2 (my goddaughter/flower girl and a 1 month old), doesn't party and is always my voice of reason, knows how to follow a budget and is not very concerned about clothes, boys and drinking.. The other 2 girls are also much calmer and although enjoy going out they don't get sloshed everytime, and both married, one has a 5 month old (my godson).
Any suggestions how I can get through to her, short of calling her Mom ("my other mother")?
Making the Trip
RSVP date February 19th