Deleted already!!!

bisabelm

It was too good to be true! I was finally awake to see some stuff go down and now it's gone. Oh well- good post though MIA!!

MIABRIDENTAMPA

Email me kailahottie523@aol.com

melinda.reider

I can't believe i saw that before it got deleted either...why did it get DD?

PinkShoesGal

I know, I was so excited to happen to log on and finally catch something! Bum-mer : (

EliNick

I can't even speak. I can't stop laughing. 

mmedov01

yes i would also like to know why it got deleted? It was very interesting. I give you a lot of credit for posting that.Well as most of us know when you refer someone you get a discount soooooooooooo i am not surprised.Rita

zobo410

I wish it was still up there as well. I think Courtney is trying to keep the peace.

mmedov01

P.S why was it deleted? i think it should stay on here fro everyone to read i dont see anything wrong.

Jessie015

I don't think the post  should have been deleted. It is only fair to let people know that sometimes some knotties can have a hidden agenda when giving suggestions. However, at the same time the post should have been done while she was here to defend herself.

Lacey36

ok I have not been on all day, but what was deleted? and what happened?

MIABRIDENTAMPA

Yes Courtney had me delete it to keep the peace and prevent Michi from feeling intimidated, stalked, or harassed. Also to keep Katie from feeling the same way

Jessie015

By the way I have to say to MiamiBride that it took a lot of B@lls to do that. I think it was great that you didn't sit back and just watch...instead u did something about it!

MichelleandAlex721

Lacey36 email me at michy721@gmail.com

MichelleandAlex721

I agree with Jessie. You thought something was wrong and you spoke out. Power to you!

Bebekah

Thanks Kaila! You officially made me come out of seclusion. I know Courtney is trying to keep the peace, but I'm glad at least some got to read it. I think it's sad and I would never use any of you ladies for my hidden agendas/personal benefit. I was fooled for a while too, but what's done in the dark always comes to light...

melinda.reider

yeah, i'll agree that that took some cojones...

melinda.reider

how did some of you become enlightened to the fact that this was going on?

LilBit1018

Kaila how did you find all of this out? Feel free to email me at Collins61110 at yahoo dot com.

zobo410

After speaking with Kaila, a lot of girls knew what was going on but didn't say anything. So, this was for all of them too. I think taking advantage of people like that is disgusting and I feel bad for the girls that were "pressured" (and didn't know it) to book venues and vendors to help someone else out.

mayda<3lester

I'd like to know what happened. I left for a little bit and totally missed the post. Can someone share? mayda.lester at gmail dot com

rrive008

i knew that would happen soon. but let me tell you something...just like there is a "need" to protect them and their feelings, i would like to be protected as well and if this all true then i sure as hell would like to know. this is a board for helping, not shady business. at least let us make our own conclusions.

PinkShoesGal

So now we have to worry that if we create a post asking for certain recs that girls may be pushing their vendors soley to receive discounts? super...........

YHFoxtrot

I don't envy court for having to moderate drama but I think what Kaila posted needed to be posted. Perhaps when she is here to defend herself the issue can be addressed again and done so in a constructive way.Especially since people have been asking endlessly "what happened"I have to applaud MIA for having the guts to say what a lot of people were thinking and wondering about...

citytoshore09

I didn't see the post but I wish I had, from reading the posts!!I would NEVER take any incentives or discounts to rec my vendors. I received nothing before/during/after my wedding that I didn't pay for. I believe in the importance of my word and I wouldn't want to taint it. I just hope the girls know that not everyone does that sort of thing.

YHFoxtrot

Morgan that's the unfortunate reality but I think for the most part you can tell when someone is PUSHING a vendor and when they are just recommending one.Just keep your eyes open and don't base your decisions solely on ONE persons recommendation and you should be fine!Unfortunately some people have agendas... that's the world we live in. It's worse though when it's someone who is in a position of power and influence....

zobo410

I don't think any of the girls on now are pushing their vendors so they can get discounts. I think they are honestly enjoying who they are using and want to help out.  

TheJennius

I kinda feel like Luke when Darth Vader told him he was his father.

rrive008

sure the accused should be here to defend herself. but really, after she gets wind of what has been discussed..i'd like to see if she does come back. anyone heard of the saying where there is smoke there is fire? i just wish we would've discussed this earlier.

melinda.reider

I'm sorry, but thejennius, you're too funny! that's a great analogy!

MIABRIDENTAMPA

Jennius- Your comment had me on the floor

babytec

Ok! i fought with myself to not post about this but this is just suffocating me!!!!! ughhhhh! From a knottie that has used a lot of her vendors i feel really stupid!!! granted i love my vendors and i am sure they will all deliver on my big day...However i wish i hadn't been so naive in volunteering information as to who referred me to them!!!!I wish people were more ethical!