You're the only one's that will be able to
I decide to see how long shipping for the BM dresses was going to take, 9-12 weeks! I didn't think it was going to take long since their is no customizing and it seems like a major company. It really is cutting it close since I have basically 12 weeks and 2 days!!! I really hope it takes 9.
So I text the other 2 girls and tell them that its either today or never cause I don't want them spending the money and it not arrive on time. They both write back that they don't have the money. Understandable, I was expecting it from one of them, but not the other. I also understand that the holidays just passed, but they've known about the dress 2 months now! I am so upset and so hurt by their actions that I just burst and told them straight out that it saddens me that I am not a priority to them, that they couldn't bump me up for the time being that I wasn't expecting them to do anything really (I really wasn't) but I was hoping they would prove me wrong. I already lost a BM, thanks to FBIL, and she was planning my BS and BP, and the other 3 girls haven't taken any interest whatsoever to do anything.
I am a strong believer of karma, I feel like everything I get and have are a direct result of the person I am. But really I don't deserve this, I know I am not the easiest person, but when it comes to my friends and family I bend over backwards for them, no matter what life is throwing my way at the moment. My friend just got engaged less than a week ago and I started planning her BS party, me, BROKE A** me! But I always find ways to get things done. It's obvious my friends don't do the same.
At least I don't have to carry this with me into the new year. Sorry for complaining so much. I almost cried, but I'm fine now
Wishing you gals a wonderful New Year!!!!!