I'm not including her in the wedding party, and I think she is mad at me for it. She will be 17 and because of the deadbeat Fdad I would have to pay her way..dress, shoes, hair, etc. And I am unable to do that.. also I would hate for her to be in the wedding party and not be able to go to any of the bachelorette parties cause she is underage.So I think I am just going to try and pay to get her hair done.. hopefully this will help some?
FDad is not invited to the wedding, He has been drinking and doing drugs ever since I frist met him. Been in and out of rehab only because they keep him in a facility where he doesnt have to pay rent or anything. He has been using food stamps to buy liquor at the corner store.. Mostly he is not invited cause he's not suposed to be drinking (AA) and he has lost all idea of how to behave in a social setting. Last time we took him our to a restaurant he fell out of his chair twice cause he snuck alcohol when he went to the bathroom, then started undressing himself in public. FI says that he is not part of his life anymore, that I am his life (awe so bittersweet right) but I feel bad..
What would you do??